You should also practice listening.

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Most people are well aware that communication is important in any relationship. You also know that in order to communicate well, you have to speak well and listen well.

But you didn't learn enough about speaking and listening in school. Compared to recognizing its importance, there was not much opportunity to learn.

After growing up, you realize how important communication is in human relationships.

It is never easy to change the habit of communication that you usually use. You may have tried to change your tone in your own way in life. You may also have tried to empathize well.

Then you may be disappointed by the thought of "Why can't we talk even though I've said this much?" or "Is this the only thing that comes back after I've done this much?"

Even so, let's not give up trying. Let's praise ourselves constantly for trying to make a new habit.

You should practice speaking and listening like a foreign language. A study conducted in Australia found that active listening is a conscious activity and needs to be learned separately.

In other words, listening ability can be improved only when you are conscious that you are learning to listen on your own. Empathy can be better empathized by those who have received it.

No one is good at anything from the beginning. Trying to do well from the beginning is greed.

It may feel awkward at first because it has already become a habit, but if you practice consciously, you will get used to it at some point.

 

Our brains constantly change and change through thought and experience. You can do well enough through practice.