전체 글7 The reason you can't communicate with them What is a good conversation? It's that you feel happy when you talk and your intentions have been conveyed as you wish. It is possible only when the other person listens to you well to feel that you had fun and that your intention was well conveyed through the conversation. The opposite is true as well. You have to listen carefully to feel that the other person has a satisfactory conversation. B.. 2023. 3. 29. You should also practice listening. Most people are well aware that communication is important in any relationship. You also know that in order to communicate well, you have to speak well and listen well. But you didn't learn enough about speaking and listening in school. Compared to recognizing its importance, there was not much opportunity to learn. After growing up, you realize how important communication is in human relationsh.. 2023. 3. 28. The first step in learning empathy. Admit your lack. The first step in learning empathy is to acknowledge your lack. Cornell University professor and social psychologist David Dunning said this after a long study. "People tend to take an overly friendly view of their social and intellectual abilities." This means that you tend to rate your conversational skills higher than you really are. A good speaker doesn't mean a good listene.. 2023. 3. 27. What you do may not be empathy. Things to watch out for when empathizing. In many psychological counseling sessions, counselors do not provide a solution to counseling. There are many cases where they are just fully considerate and empathize. In fact, psychological counseling uses a lot of reflection techniques. The reflection technique is a commonly used empathy technique that reads the mind behind words or actions. Counselor.. 2023. 3. 27. It depends on what you think. What do you think when you see successful people on the Internet, on TV, and around you? Aren't you envious that everyone seems to be successful and happy except for me? Everyone wants to be successful and happy. Everyone also wants to make a lot of money. Is it easy to become rich if the environment and conditions are good? If you are in a good environment, you will be more likely to be affecte.. 2023. 3. 27. 3 ways to say hello well 3 Ways to Say Greetings Well (A pleasant greeting, An agreeable greeting) It is not difficult to greet brightly. You just feel awkward because you're not used to it. Being shy just means it's not natural. First, you whisper to yourself that you are a positive and bright person. After repeating it about 10 times, let's have a natural smile. And practice by spitting out the prepared greeting. Let'.. 2023. 3. 26. How to write a wish-fulfilled thank-you diary(gratitude journal) One of the famous American talk show host Oprah Winfrey said this. Be grateful for what you have. You'll have more. If you focus on what you don't have, it will never be enough. And she said. There's so much to be thankful for around us. And you have to record it every day. Records are important. Humans are animals of oblivion, so they forget easily. If you keep a record, it will be remembered l.. 2023. 3. 26. 이전 1 다음